Thursday, November 6, 2014

REPUBLICANS WIN

"I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercessions and thanksgiving be made for all people--for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness."  1 Timothy 2: 1-2 NIV

It used to be that employees got raises for time served and good behavior. (smile) I currently work where raises are "scheduled" according to how many hours I've invested in the institution: not for promptness, good use of time, hard work, or taking initiative. And only if wages aren't frozen to deal with a recession or budget shortfall.

I'm motivated by work ethic and raises given according to work performed; but it does make me ponder. Are raises then a compliment? Or an expression of increased responsibility? I suspect both.

As the news media tells the nation, in bold print, that the Republicans have taken over control of the House and the Senate, I ask the same question and come up with the same answer. Shall Republicans receive this as a compliment? Sure, they should. Should they also receive it as a trust; an expression of increased responsibility? Absolutely!

I've tried to do much reading in the last 6 months on the business of politics. These men and women face no easy task. Passions and compromise are hard to reconcile. 

When writing fiction, authors are encouraged to give villains redeeming qualities, and heroes a character flaw. None of us is perfectly good or perfectly evil. Can we believe that and trust God?

Can we remind ourselves that God raises up government officials for our blessing--or for our discipline. And yet, with that, we are always called to pray and obey. But knowing, when we must choose between obeying man's word or God's Word, Always God!  

" Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God." Romans 13: 1 NIV

Ever-Dependent On Him,
Lonnie
  

Thursday, October 23, 2014

WHEN PROTEST WORKS

" The aim of effective and transformational protest should be to illumine a society to its need for change. In other words, protest must be instructive to succeed . . . The power of protest is not in its anger but its invitation.

"In fact, those who protest should be making a promise. They are promising their society that a better way is indeed possible."
Jim Wallis
God's Politics
HarperSanfrancisco  2005
p. 46


Cataracts would be a good excuse for not posting for so long, but it's also a cop-out. Life gets busy and priorities aren't as easy to set as it seems they should be.

As you see, I've picked up a new book. Elections are less than 2 weeks away. I'm trying to be wise and responsible. (For a while, my co-dependent self was trying to make sure everyone else was too.) I'm trying to read fast, which is nothing short of laughable. I'm praying, incorporating verses from Proverbs: "Help me to not lean on my own understanding, but to acknowledge You in all my ways so that You can direct my paths."

Each political book I read confuses me more--and yet adds a to my understanding of the political process. Each book presents perspectives I haven't thought of. This time, among many other issues, I'm looking at protest.

I guess it's a no-brainer that venting, alone, does little good. Protest needs to be tempered with alternatives--and hope. Wallis allows readers to see that played out. 

Wallis and church leaders warned the Bush administration about disasterous consequences to war in Iraq. They presented a 6 step alternative which included still dealing with Hussein but protecting the Iraqi people. Unfortunately, the plan was not received and the consequences have been as disasterous as expected.

BUT . . . I believe the plan was well thought out and had it been implemented, we'd be living in a different world. I absolutely believe that there are times when the alternatives WILL be received. When the wisdom WILL be recognized. I don't believe we can give up.

Example: poverty/taxing the rich/welfare. Some believe all poor are stupid and/or lazy and deserve nothing. With others, their compassion (or desire for control) runs so deep that they would, unconditionally, give the poor everything they need or want. You know--as we ALL do, that there is some middle ground to play with. Or as Jim Wallis would say, "There is a Third Way."

I've written my first letter to a senator this year. I expressed thankfulness for some measures she's taken. I also asked if there weren't some way to deal with a couple issues that would respect the rights and beliefs of both Republicans and Democrats.

What can I say? It's a start.

Ever Dependent on Him,
Lonnie



  

Saturday, August 16, 2014

WHEN POLITICS WORKED

"More than any other event in recent times, the Social Security compromise demonstrated that there is a political center in America that can govern for the benefit of the country even when there are extremely difficult problems to be faced and strongly held differences of opinions about solutions."
(emphasis mine)
Chris Matthews
Tip and The Gipper: When Politics Worked
Simon and Schuster  2013
p. 250

Ray tells people that I shook the bed laughing so hard at Barbara Johnson's book, "Stick A Geranium In Your Hat."

I knew Mom would enjoy the book, too. She had a fully functioning sense of humor and a contagious laugh.

"When does it get funny?" she asked.

Whoa! I didn't see that coming.

I feel a bit the same way about, "Tip and the Gipper." When politics worked? I was two thirds through the book and hadn't seen it yet. I hadn't seen two parties cooperating with one another.

Then I realized, I had twisted expectations. "Working" isn't about pleasantries and good manners. (It's not even about nice language.)

"Working together" is about two people/parties who are absolutely passionate! Passionate about what the problem is and passionate about how to fix it.

"Working together" more resembles a boxing match; each giving and taking blows of blame and insults--sometimes getting bloodied in the process. It's about not giving up, until -- one or both realizes that the wins and losses are about the people they serve. It's about partial wins, trade-offs--compromise!

Social Security (a hot button which will probably never cool down) drew a line of barbed wire between President Ronald Reagan and Speaker Tip O'Neil.

"The Democrats on it [Greenspan Commission]had been pushing for more revenues in the system, while their Republican fellows were insisting on lower payments to the retirees. The result, as the deadline neared, remained a stalemate . . . with the Democrats hoping to make the system of greater value to those who need it most and the Republicans looking for ways to reduce the burden on those paying in." p. 246

BOTH  sides had valid views. Both sides were thinking of the people. Yet both would attack the problem from a different direction.

Knowing that "no compromise" only hurt the people they were trying to help, creative thinking had to take place. O'Neil considered a progressive tax solution (versus his preference of no increased payments).

Delay in cost-of-living increases came to the table.

Higher income brackets paying income on half of their Social Security benefits made an appearance, too.

In the end, "the changes favored low-income Americans and ensured the survival of a strong Social Security system."  p.250

"There was a sense, on a certain level," Chris Matthews writes, "of working together in the service of the country. What's strange is that I can claim such a thing even though the rivalry was often so ferocious."  p.251

I don't know if we need two parties; but we need, at least, two points of view. (Isn't one point of view synonymous with dictatorship?) Neither side may have the whole answer, but between the two, they may come up with a solution better than either side has on its own.

I, apparently, had seen "working together" as one side finally seeing the wisdom of the other side and conceding to it. Perhaps, to me, working together was a kin to good sportsmanship; someone winning and the loser not blaming the umpire or the coach, but just accepting the loss with hopes of better luck next time.

BUT

I'm beginning to see that politics work when you fight for what you believe in--you even fight hard! But, in the end accepting some trade-offs and partial wins for the good of the people--ALL people.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Saturday, August 9, 2014

HOW BIG IS THE MIDDLE?

We often think of "the middle" as a small, almost invisible place between two larger, but equal sides. Perhaps we need to change the picture. If we don't, when we ask people to meet us in the middle, it becomes more like a line in the sand that we dare someone to cross. It becomes "my way or your way." 

What if the middle looked more like a 9 by 13 chocolate cake divided into thirds--thus making the middle not quite so threatening? If you'll pardon my pun, it leaves some "fudge room."  We can listen to one another's ideas, and even "consider" them without losing our party status and without shamefully surrendering our convictions.

I'm listening to Senator Elizabeth Warren's book, A Fighting Chance. I'm reading D'Sousa's book, America. I'm also reading, Tip and the Gipper. Trust me when I tell you, no one in my family or school class would peg me for reading anything of consequence, but . . . I hate being totally predictable, so that's okay.

As I experiment with stretching the middle, I'm finding one rather refreshing thing. Politicians aren't all monsters. They are passionate. Elizabeth Warren, having done extensive research on bankruptcy, found desperate families--not deadbeats. She has fought with all her power to bring them some relief. The bale-outs of big banks infuriated her, especially when help for multitudes of families facing foreclosures was needed and expected. Here's some middle ground I can step into.

Tip O'Neill would probably be your poster boy for big government; Ronald Reagan, just the opposite. Ben Carson and D'Sousa stand in a conservative camp, rather than in a liberal one or, what we now call, progressive. (Progressive definitely conjures up a different and more positive picture, but wears the same clothes as former liberals.) I don't deny that I "lean" toward conservative.

Our family experienced welfare: the help and the humiliation. I'm grateful for government's intervention. BUT . . . I see more and more that the government doesn't give without a cost. What they "give," they control.  The more people/institutions receiving government assistance, the greater the threat of government takeover. I know that sounds radical--not like middle ground, but if we look at freedoms and privacies that we have already lost, we can't help but consider that possibility. I repeat, "All politicians aren't monsters." Some, however, do not have your best interest in mind. We need to educate ourselves on issues and people from both sides. And we need to vote accordingly. Pardon my repetition again: We Need To Vote! 

One thing that sort of baffles me. We get so ticked at Congress because they won't cooperate with one another. No one will cross party lines! But what about us? Are we willing to see that both camps have their amenities, if you will? Can we vote a split ticket? Can we communicate with our congressmen and women and with our senators places where we think the other camp has some reasonable ideas? If we threaten to withdraw our votes when they "cross the line," how can we Expect Cooperation and Progress?

Really. Think about it.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Monday, August 4, 2014

BLACK AND WHITE: IT AIN'T HAPPENIN'!

"In politics there's a large divide between losing and being defeated . . . "
Tip and The Gipper: When Politics Worked
Chris Matthews
Simon and Schuster  2013
p. 173

"When Politics Worked?" Is that possible? In today's climate of undiluted stubbornness, it wouldn't seem so. And when compromise isn't seen as an option, we all lose. 

I loved reading Ben Carson's books and finding hope. I knew that some of his ideas, In America The Beautiful and in One Nation, if carried out by government, would hurt me. But, for the overall good and for the future of America and coming generations, I determined that someone had finally discovered some workable and sensible solutions. America was worth fighting for.

But, speaking of compromise . . .

I LIKE BLACK AND WHITE BUT, IT AIN'T HAPPENIN'!

I'd make a great Pharisee. I like absolute requirements because it feels like I'll get predictable results. Number one: I'm wrong. Number two: Jesus rebuked the Pharisees rather harshly.

I'd known that I needed to read the other side, whatever that looked like. I, typically, don't vote a straight ticket. To the best of my ability, I try to vote for the best person. That being said, I quit voting for the hot buttons--ones like gay marriage, abortion, etc that both parties "use" to get your vote and mine. Boy, I hate the games!

I ran across this Tip and Gipper book at a sale. I didn't have in mind the opposing viewpoint piece, but it is working in exactly that direction. It's a good read for me.

I'm seeing two men, not playing the rival for the sake of the game and competition; but two men who truly believe their way is best for America. These men (these parties) don't agree. But it isn't about chalking up victories so much as it is about each foreseeing the likely consequences of, for example, heavily taxing the rich or givng them breaks.

I also see the "games." And I'm beginning to see that they are not entirely avoidable. "'We haven't obstructed,' Tip explained. 'I think we fought a good fight as far as the Reagan people are concerned. We stuck to our timetable. We passed the largest tax bill and budget bill in history. It's the President's now. The ball is in his court--the deficits, the interest rates and unemployment.'"  p. 171 (emphasis mine)

It seems, at times, that it does a party more good to let the other party hang itself. Call it manipulation or call it wisdom; it's a game. But the score does get settled in the end. The parties and the American people see how it plays out. And, honestly, no one is guaranteed certain outcomes. Black and white ain't happenin'.  As it all plays out, we all learn--what works, what doesn't. The unfortunate part, is that often when mistakes are made, no one wants to take credit for them. We, then, not only question the wisdom of leadership but, more critically, their integrity and sincerity as well.  And . . . reversing the action and consequences seems impossible.

I'm sure there are politicians who have unhealthy agendas. And frankly, I feel that way about our current administration. But, I'm encouraged by reading about two men who (at least half way through the book) genuinely care for our country and the people--just in different ways.

God, give us leaders who love You and listen to Your wisdom--for only You know outcomes.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie



Saturday, August 2, 2014

AMERICA THE AWFUL?

"America has been the undisputed world leader for only two decades. When we consider that the Roman Age lasted a thousand years, and the Ottomans and the British dominated the world for several centuries,America's dominance seems brief, and already it is precarious."
Dinesh D'souza
America: Imagine A World Without Her
Regnery Publishing   2014
p.7-8

I intend to be more casual with this blog--less worried about word arrangement and convincing anyone else; more about clarifying my own thoughts. A friend told me recently, "Lonnie, you can't change the world." She's right. If anyone is to be changed, including myself (!) that's a God-sized job.

Ray and I went to see America at the theatre--probably our first movie since we took the kids to Short Circuit. It was eye-opening and helpful. I saw what our children had been taught in school and began to understand the attitudes and rebellion expressed since. If America is as they were taught, it DOES stink. But, they were taught partial truths.

That being said, discernment is always needed. One side against another? There are bound to be extremes. As a responsible adult and Christian, I need to weed them out to the best of my ability. And try as I might, I'm unlikely to capture the whole truth.

SO . . . AMERICA DOESN'T STAY IN FIRST PLACE. DOES IT MATTER?

You know what? I asked myself this question and I think it does. From a pride standpoint, no. From a freedom standpoint, yes.

Why do we have so many other peoples coming to the United States to live? Is it because we are the crumby, disgusting nation that our children have been led to believe?

"Alexander Hamilton noted that, historically, countries have been founded by 'accident and force' but America was an opportunity to found a nation by 'reflection and choice.'" p. 8

"Thus America's influence in the world, unlike Europe's, was not based on conquest but rather on attraction to American ideals and the American way of life."  p.8

I remember, from the movie, D'souza talking with a border guard. D'souza suggested that it must be a tough job keeping people from crossing the border of America into Mexico. D'souza asked that question a few different ways, each time getting the same answer: "No." No problems in keeping people from slipping into Mexico? No, not once.

It makes me smile.

Another man D'souza talked to was Mexican. D'souza discussed America having "stole" Mexico and only having given part of it back. "If we gave the rest back, would you move back to Mexico?"

"No."

America isn't perfect. We are a nation made up of sinners like anywhere else. But, there has to be something good here, or why are so many migrating to our lands?

Just saying . . . maybe we need to wonder and ask that if the America founded by our forefathers is worth coming to, is it worth fighting for?

Thinking and Growing,
Lonnie

Saturday, July 19, 2014

VILLIANNESS RICH?

"I make no apologies for the fact that I am considered one of the rich in this nation, but I am proud of the fact that our single largest annual expense (excluding taxes) is charitable contributions, and I happen to know that that is the case with many of our persnal friends who are also well-to-do."
Ben Carson with Candy Carson
America The Beautiful
Zondervan 
p. 76

I've held a pretty consistent bitterness, through some tough years, toward rich people--those rich enough to buy new and those rich enough not to worry. I've been hurt by some who judged me by the street I lived on; that's true. Self-pity played its part. So did my upbringing.

If someone was rich, they were probably crooked too: Like the doctor who never does quite everything needed to get you better--so he can keep charging you for office calls and services. Or, that family that looks rich: it's all on a charge card (1960s). In my household, rich people were suspect. 

If I'd read Carson's books earlier, I'd have held him suspect too. "He doesn't understand. My circumstances are different." Self-pity and victim-hood would have prevailed. 

When Ray got hurt on the job, early in our marriage, we fought for workman's compensation--and lost. I suppose I did feel entitled. Workman's comp is an insurance that's paid for. Yet, they discovered at age 27, that Ray had a genetic issue. Never bothered him before, but . . .

We ended up on welfare. I'll tell you, by the time you jump through their hoops, you feel darn entitled! You've earned whatever paltry dollars and food stamps you get.

That being said, one of Ben Carson's buzz words is work. I hope to write him one day, to agree but to share why it took me so long to believe.

With Ray unable to work, I tried selling Fuller Brush door to door. I gained little more than bounced checks. Following Ray's job change, but another injury, I tried McDonalds. They paid me enough to have someone, besides me, care for our children. Every dollar I earned decreased our welfare in like measure. It didn't seem "work" worked for me. When Ray got a job he could do, we took a cut in pay from welfare. Had they just left us with medical assistance for small children prone to strep and ear infections, it would have been a tremendous help.

As it turned out, we got snarky shame-filled comments from medical receptionists. "You might have to give up movies, or skating, or . . . " People do those things?  I wanted to say. Instead, I cried.

That further rooted my bitterness toward the comfortable and wealthy. BUT . . .
I'm changing. As I've read books these last couple years, I've begun to recognize how many rich people have poured into, and continue to pour into our nation . . . and to help the disadvantaged with medical help and education. 

I haven't read a lot of rags-to-riches stories, but I'm especially appreciative of Carson's. Because of the way his mother responded to their situation, I believe he "does" understand both sides.

I, in my entitlement mentality, would tax the rich to give more to the poor. But I understand now why the wealthy take their businesses outside our borders. They don't get taxed to death (punished for their hard work) in other countries. They take their money to a safe place. Unfortunately, they take jobs with them--jobs we need! 

I understand, among some rich, there is the greed factor. There is the slave labor piece. At this time, I can't speak to that. But I consider the Serenity Prayer thoughts. What can I change? What can't I change? For the time being, what I can change or at least work toward is how I vote. I will no longer vote toward socialist measures--the Robin Hood mentality of taking from the rich to give to the poor. (Understand, I also wouldn't vote for corporate welfare and loopholes.) There are flaws in capitalism; but if it encourages work and ingenuity, I think it's a good place to start. I believe there are opportunities for us all; encouragement is what we need.

More Later. Till then . . . 
EverGrowing,
Lonnie 

Monday, July 14, 2014

RAMBLINGS, CONVICTIONS, AND HOPE

"We never argue. But every now and then, we have intense moments of fellowship."
Jeff and Shari Easter/Gaither DVDs

Going from memory rather than offering an exact quote, the thought surely applies to Ray and I . . . particularly in the area of politics. In years of Presidential elections, we can barely talk.

Ironically, we are on the same page. We are in agreement about the candidates. We agree on the issues, for the most part. He has even, with help of others, changed my views on gun control.

The conflict centers on HOPE or lack thereof.

As evidenced by this blog, I've been reading political books. Nook, fortunately, allows readers to download "samples." Different than being tied to a store, one can peruse those samples at their leisure. Sitting at McDonalds, I downloaded several samples. I began to read one that warned Americans of our downward spiral, of the possibility of becoming a second or third world nation. I felt fear rising.

I reminded myself that I was reading a "sample." A different outlook could unfold with the passing pages. But . . .

Here's where my thoughts went: "If seemingly good men add no hope to the warning of the United States going bankrupt or becoming a third world country, what's the point!!!? If the author offers no solutions or no possibilities of turning the tide, why bother? The fear that would result would only further bring our country down.

Ray sort of leans to the side of blame and no hope; or so it seems to me. When he tells me Congress always does this, or people discover someone is bad and yet continue to vote them back in, I say (to him, for me), "BUT GOD . . . "

God is bigger! God has a plan! It may be for our discipline. It may be hard---very hard. But I can't lose sight of hope. I just can't live there.

Yet, while Ray and I participated in some "intense fellowship," another conviction surfaced in my heart: Has Satan distracted me? Has a spirit of holy determination planted itself within my heart, yet become distorted? While fighting not to lose my freedom to worship God, have I forgotten God? Has what started as fighting for my faith become fighting for my country? Neither of those is bad or wrong--unless my eyes wander from God. Unless I begin to take on this battle like it is something "I" can win.

The difference is so sublte--that of fighting for God or fighting with God. That of doing what I believe God would have me to do; BUT trusting Him with the outcomes. 

Maybe somethings are too far gone to be reversed. Maybe these are what we consider "end times" and our hope must be eternity-centered. The Jews believed Jesus was going to free them from the domination of Rome. To some degree, that is our hope. We can certainly pray and work toward that end. BUT . . . GOD! 

God, whatever Your plan, give me the heart, strength, and courage to cooperate. Help me continually recognize that Your ways are not my ways. When it feels like the world is falling in around me, help me to HOPE--and help me to pass it on.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie  

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

KNOWLEDGE, HARD WORK, FREEDOM

"The founders also believed that education is crucial to offering checks and balances to governing leaders' power. Otherwise, the insidious loss of freedom, quite relevant to us today, will follow." 
Ben Carson, M.D.
America the Beautiful   Zondervan 2012
p. 65


 
Two oft repeated thoughts in Carson's book center around knowledge and hard work. Education doesn’t necessarily need to be formal. Throughout the last few years, I’ve heard over and over: Read, read, read. Read what interests you. Read what concerns you. I don’t typically read political books, but I am concerned—for America, for the Church’s fading effectiveness and influence, for the loss of religious freedoms, and for my own growth. So—I read. So—I write.

I missed, in growing up, the value of hard work. Of course, it was expected of me but I don’t believe it was presented to me with a tone of future or hope. In hindsight, I would have loved to have heard, “You can do anything! Dream big! Work hard! It’s worth it! You’ll be glad you did.  


Ben Carson, not without some parental motivation, found hope and possibilities in books. (which I am finding in his) As he read about inventors (one of my personal favorites), explorers, industrial leaders, and entrepreneurs, he discovered a commonality—the desire to work hard in order to accomplish something.

I found, in inventors and colonial Americans, determination and endurance; a perseverance that would not let them give up. Surely, some did give up. Were they to be recognized in history, it might well be for being plagued by regrets and lack of fulfillment. Were we to interview them, we might detect blame or a victim mentality (attitudes I’m too familiar with). Dr. Carson would say to that:

“From all I observed around me growing up and all I read, I quickly realized that, in spite of the circumstances affecting you, the person who had the most to do with what happened to you in life was you.” (America The Beautiful  p. 68)

I wish I’d read those thoughts a few decades ago, but I’m trusting that God has brought them across my path, now, for a reason; maybe to share with you. I’d have never imagined myself to understand anything political or historical. But again, God. “For such a time as this” He has given me understanding and passion. I’m excited to see what He is going to do with it. If it’s for no other reason than for me to know that I’ve not gone down without a fight, so be it.

“By remaining ignorant,” writes Carson, “we shirk our democratic duty and open ourselves to slick politicians who usurp our rights. Some of the segments of our society who are most easily led astray are those with the poorest general education, which makes one wonder if those seeking political advantage are happy to maintain the status quo in order that the uneducated might be more easily manipulated.”
America The Beautiful  p. 65

Maybe you feel like it’s too late for you; too late to accomplish anything, too late to become involved, too late to have any impact in our/your world. It’s never too late. And for sure, not too late to pass it on—to grandchildren, neighbors, to generations that follow you.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Thursday, June 26, 2014

EDUCATION!

"Reorganizing American education is a priority on a level with containing the war on terrorism, for it is just as essencial to national and economic security."

Tom Brokaw
The Time of Our Lives
Random House 2011


I know it should be a no-brainer; but somehow I missed it. Education is important!

My brother got straight A's all through highschool, even though he took one more class per semester than was required. You can't waste intelligence like that. He went to college.

I wanted to be a writer--or an x-ray tech, or lab tech. I ended up in beauty school. In several ways, it has served me well. It put me in the right place and the right time to meet my husband. That's a huge plus!

However, he was injured early in our marriage. So, when we talked about college to our children, it was with this attitude: "if you want to go to school, you'll have to earn your own way." My attitude should have been, "You can do anything you want if you are willing to work for it."

Tom Brokaw writes about Anthony Smith, a principal at Taft High School, and Jack Cassidy, a CEO of Cincinnati Bell. They made clear their heightened expectations for both teachers and students. The school's transformation drew students from outside the neighborhood. "Taft's graduation rate in ten years went from 21 percent to more than 95 percent. Proficiency in math and reading jumped to 95 percent in the same period." (The Time of Our Lives p. 47) I've run across other such stories. I'm always encouraged. We have some fantastic teachers who truly care for those in their charge.

The Other Wes Moore, a book Brokaw writes about captured my interest. Two men, named Wes Moore, who lived within blocks of each other, ended up on completely different paths: One a Rhodes scholar and one in prison. Were I to summarize the reason, after reading the book, I'd say education and a great mom. A mom who handled the temptations teens face with wisdom. I would pass that same compliment onto Mrs. Carson.

Ben Carson, M.D., renown neurosurgeon, came out of a single parent home and one of poverty. Those circumstances usually play out quire differently: welfare, crime, or minimum wage jobs. Education and a "can do" attitude changed the score. His mom didn't just give up when Ben and his brother brought home poor report cards. She shut off the TV and required they read two books a week. Of course, neither liked that at first. She wanted a  better life for them and she knew education was critical for that to happen.

Carson shares a bold truth in, America The Beautiful: "The very fact that powerful men in the South went to great lengths to prevent slaves from gaining an education makes it clear that they fully understood how empowering education can be. That fact alone should encourage anyone who is poor, weak, and/or powerless to direct all their energy toward obtaining an education." (emphasis mine)
(p. 57/p. 60--Nook)

I wish I could get my heart out on this page. I didn't realize how important education was; I thought it was meant for a select few. . . those born with an extra measure of intelligence; those with money. I'm learning that this isn't true. Anyone willing to work, or ask for help may attend college or a trade school that expresses their interests. I am also learning that, in this age where much physical labor is being replaced by technology, additional schooling is critical.

 Ben Carson came to love learning. Me too, once I started reading.  Education, be it formal or informal, adds richness and security to our lives; and I believe strengthens our nation, as well. 

I suspect I'll touch on education, again. Till then . . . 

EverGrowing,
Lonnie



Monday, June 23, 2014

TAXATION WITHOUT REPRESENTATION

"With all their backbreaking hard work, they felt it unfair to have a significant portion of the fruits of their labors confiscated by a government that neither represented their interests nor respected their freedom."

Ben Carson, M.D.
America The Beautiful
Zondervan Publishing 2012
p. 19

Escalating taxes without interests being represented and without respect for freedom. I find the similarities quite striking between Great Britain of old and the current U.S.

If we-the-people vote something down, it no longer means anything--unless it's pay-offs, manipulation, or adding the "no" to a bill that would be inhumane to vote anything but yes for.

Many young people (and others) have given up on voting. They determine either that their vote doesn't matter, or that all choices are equally bad. I understand. I, too, am tempted. But I fear that not voting invites a dictatorship; and that not necessarily overnight.

Ben Carson reminds us that some of Britain's subjects felt a fight for freedom was too risky. They preferred to hold on to their current benefits. I, too, am fearful and a low risk taker. But, I'm old enough now to have seen progressive losses.

So . . . we don't fight (protest, speak out, write editorials or our elected officials) for fear of losing benefits, freedoms, or friends. My dear citizen, unless we exhibit courage and strength, we could well lose them anyway.

Matthew 24:43 tells us that "if the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into."

We are watching. Do we misunderstand? Are we going to "watch" them walk off with our money to support things against our better judgment and our morals? Will we watch them walk off with our freedom of religion? Our freedom of speech?

Do we think they're borrowing our freedom and will return it in the condition with which we gave it to them?

I don't think so.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Thursday, June 19, 2014

GATHERING HOPE

Most conversations concerning our government leave me with an overwhelming sense of fear or a sick feeling of hopelessness. I can't hide in a closet or stuff my ears with silly putty (or worship music); but neither can I survive in a constant state of anger and fear.

I, who flunked every quiz on current events; who barely passed history and geography seem an unlikely candidate for books on politics. And I don't possess an ounce of activism. But that's where I am these days. 

If these are the End Times, I don't feel right just sucumbing to the evil forces directing it. If, the Church and the nation can be restored to what they were meant to be, I want to, at least, be knowledgable enough to pray. Better yet, I hope to be a purveyer of truth and hope. 

Let me begin with a recommended reading list:

America The Beautiful by Ben Carson, M.D.
One Nation by Ben Carson, M.D.
Christ Among Other gods by Erwin W. Lutzer
Where Was God? (Lutzer)
Seven Reasons Why You Can Trust The Bible (Lutzer)
Falling In Love With America Again by Jim DeMint
Times of Our Lives by Tom Brokaw
The Bible

I'm excited about what I'm learning. Hope you will come along.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Thursday, May 22, 2014

SOCIAL AND INTELLECTUAL TOLERANCE

"Social tolerance means that we treat other people with respect regardless of their religious views. We believe all people are created in the image of God and therefore have dignity and worth."

"The third kind of tolerance is intellectual; that is, the question of whether one is willing to compromise his fundamental beliefs . . . Those who dialogue with other religions with the intention of integrating such beliefs . . . "

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishing  1994
p. 197

A man or woman is of immeasureable worth, no matter what they believe! But what each person believes bears eternal consequences.

Lutzer warns, rather emphatically, that  Christian tolerance has limits--particularly at the point where tolerance begins changing the landscape of God's Word.

We can't mix a little Christianity with a little karma, and a little astrology. What God's Word forbids, we cannot add without sinning--and without deceiving others. 

Two Scriptures come to mind: "The words of the Lord are pure words, like silver tried in a furnace of earth. Purified seven times." Psalm 12: 6 NKJV

God's Word is not a haphazard word. It is tried and proven. Lutzer wrote another book on the trustworthiness of God's Word. It holds up under scrutiny.

"Dead flies putrefy the perfumer's ointment, and cause it to give off a foul odor; So does a little folly to one respected for wisdom and honor." Ecclesiastes 10: 1 NKJV

Little flies--little follies become the ruin of something precious.

This has been a pretty heavy couple weeks in my blog; not where I intended to go and frankly, not where I wanted to go. But I feel it's a time and place that God has asked me to take a stand.

EverGrowing--not always willingly,
Lonnie

Monday, May 19, 2014

LEGAL TOLERANCE

"As Christians we must fight for legal tolerance; that is, the freedom for individuals to believe as they wish. No one can be coerced to believe in Christ; no one should be rejected because he belongs to another religion."

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishers   1994
p. 197

Lutzer refers to three kinds of tolerance, as explained by Harold Netland in Dissonant Voices: Legal, Social, and Intellectual.

America was founded on the freedom of religion; freedom to worship according to our own consciences. That doesn't mean freedom just for Christians. I admit, that's hard for me to swallow. And I think one reason might be because that freedom isn't necessarily reciprocal.

"The religions of the Far East," writes Lutzer, "often give an aura of tolerance that is particularly directed toward Western audiences. However, those who have lived in(those) countries . . . tell stories of repression, persecution, and ostracism . . . " p. 196 I see those attitudes coming to the United States. But--reciprocal or not, everyone deserves the freedom to make their own choice. And like Lutzer writes, they can't be "coerced" to believe Christ. Nor is that what we desire. The rich life we experience with Christ is because of our own "heart" decision.

I think another reason I struggle with freedom-for-all is two-fold: My own conviction that accepting Jesus Christ's death and resurrection is the only way to heaven; my conviction, also, that there are only two possible destinations, and the other option is equally "eternal." I want everyone to know the truth/Truth and to go to heaven.

The other fold is concern; my own uncertainty of where God-honoring solitude, silence, and meditation become too influenced by Eastern practices of meditation. And the possibility of the Body of Christ being deceived. 

"You, Lord, have abandoned your people, the decendents of Jacob. They are full of superstitions from the East; they practice divination like the Philistines and embrace pagan customs." Isaiah 2:6 NIV

Psalms and Joshua tell us to meditate on God's Word/Law, on His unfailing love, on His mighty deeds, on His promises. I'm, frankly, unsure about meditating on a waterfall, eagle, or one particular word. But that's me. I've yet to work all this out. And, within the subject of this blog, I must let others work it out for themselves, as well.

How do you practice freedom-for-all? Do you incorporate meditation into your relationship with Jesus? What does it look like?

EverGrowing--Sometimes Rambling,
Lonnie

PS: Next time Social and Intellectual Tolerance to conclude my walk with Lutzer through "Christ Among Other gods."

Thursday, May 15, 2014

SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS AND DOCTRINAL HAIR-SPLITTING?

"How can we be active witnesses for Christ in an era of unprecedented tolerance, an era in which converting someone else to your religious views is labeled bigotry and predjudice? If tolerance is indeed a national icon, how can we witness without the stigma of self-righteousness and a penchant for doctrinal hair-splitting?"

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishers  1994
p. 195-6

I'm going to pull a mean one, here. I sat with this question through twelve chapters. Not unlike a novel, I hoped upon hope that I would find an answer(s) at the end. Can I ask "you" to sit with this question for a day or two? Have you struggled with it before? "I" feel like I face it every day. Concern for the lost--how do I share Jesus without turning people off? -- Should I "care" if I turn people off? Don't they at least need an "opportunity" to accept or reject the truth. Their eternity is at stake.

When I read Scripture, I like to exhaust "Word on Word" resources, if you will: cross-references, concordance, multiple readings. Once, I feel like I have an idea of what the passage means, I'll check with a commentary or two. I think that might be good to do with this subject. Without outside resources, how would you answer Lutzer's questions?

Pondering and Growing,
Lonnie

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

A "PASTOR" SAID "THAT?!"

"Years ago I was sitting next to a popular woman pastor at a banquet. I asked her, "'Do you believe Christ is the only way to God?'

"She replied, 'Of course! Why do you ask?'

"'Do you believe that all the religions of the world are equally valid?'

"Again the reply, 'Of course!'

"When I asked her how this could be reconciled with the view that Christ was the only way to God, she refused to answer. Undaunted, I persisted until she leaned over and whispered in my ear, 'When I speak about Christ, I'm not talking about Jesus of Nazareth!.'"

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishers  1994
p.115

Seriously, who'd have thought!?

Lutzer knew of this woman and her beliefs; that's why he pushed a bit in this conversation. But how many of us would have thought we were talking to another Christian? And frankly, what disturbs me is that she leaned over and "whispered." In other words, she was well aware that her words were deceptive. That while she said one thing, she meant quite another.

"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God . . . " 1 John 4: 1-3

"Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved."
Acts 4:12 NIV

(all emphasis mine)

Thank you, Erwin Lutzer, for allowing us to eavesdrop on your conversation; for showing us the need to "test the spirits" and showing us how to do so, according to God's Word.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Monday, May 12, 2014

ALL RELIGIONS EQUALLY TRUE?

"If all the religions of the world are equally true, logic requires that they all are equally false: The conflicting doctrines would cancel one another!


Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishers   1994
p. 49-50

Logically, Lutzer explains, all religions of the world may be false. But logically, they cannot  all be true.

I beg you to think this through. Christians believe in one God. Hindus believe in thousands. Many religions believe Jesus was a great man; a great prophet. He is all that and more. He is God! "When the Parliament of the World's Religions issued a Global Ethic, it did not even use the word God because some Buddists would have been offended." (Lutzer/p.48)

We are not talking baptism by sprinkling or immersion, here. We are not talking about tongues or not tongues. We are not discussing whether Saturday or Sunday is the appropriate Sabbath; or what constitutes dishonoring that Sabbath. We are talking about God's first commandment: "You shall have no other gods before Me."  

In the name of tolerance and diversity . . . maybe in the name of Minnesota Nice, I feel "required" to accept everyone's religion. I'm required to appreciate their culture, their beliefs. We have much to learn from one another and all religions, after all, have similar results--peace, love of mankind . . . and all the more so when agree. 

 I can appreciate. I can learn. I can love; and I do. Oh, my goodness, I encounter incredibly special people every day!

I cannot agree. Scriptures forbid that I do. I, at this point, have to choose --to please man or to please God. Because I have grown to love my Creator, my companion, and my Savior; and because this God holds eternity in His Hands, I choose to please Him.

By His Strength,
Lonnie
  

Friday, May 9, 2014

FREE TO WORSHIP PRIVATELY

"The Emperor Diocletian has issued a new order, requiring all people to attend the religious/political ceremony designed to unify the nation and revive lagging patriotism within the empire. Specifically, this ceremony involves burning a bit of incense and saying simply, 'Caesar is Lord.' Those who do this receive a seal of approval; those who don't might well be put to death.

" . . . they would actually not have to stop worshiping the true God; after they have sworn their allegiance to Caesar as Lord, they are free to privately worship whatever god they wish. Every religion is tolerated; freedom to choose one's own god is generally accepted. Indeed, there is richness in diversity."

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody 1994
p.43

Worship your God. You absolutely have that freedom. But -- do it privately. Take down the crosses, remove the Ten Commandments. Hide your nativity scenes. And please (!) don't pray in school or in public. Some may be offended. And for the sake of peace, diversity, and fairness, we can't have that.

Every religion is tolerated; dare I say encouraged? Every religion, it seems, except Christianity. I feel that way; and others around me express that irritation often. BUT why are we surprised?

"This is the verdict. Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed."
John 3: 20 NIV

Symbols of, and especially words of Christ expose sin. They expose our sins, as well. Christians, however, use such "lights" to also remind them of God's forgiveness. 

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you . . ."
John 15: 18-19 NIV

We don't belong to the world, so it hates us.

"Blessed are you when people hate you, when they exclude you and insult you and reject your name as evil, because of the Son of Man.
"Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their ancestors treated the prophets."
Luke 6: 22-23

Sometimes, this presents a quandry for me. The closer the coming of Jesus becomes, the more hatred (intolerance) of Christianity there is likely to be. We have already lost freedoms of expressing our faith. There's a good chance that pattern will continue. Do we "accept" what we "expect?" Do we quit standing up for Christ and worship privately?

Here's my thought, even if I don't like it. I believe we have to continue fighting for our freedoms, so long as we have the freedom to do so. But . . . I think we need to do so for the love of Christ and for the people He died for, knowing this: we may suffer for doing so. The suffering, my friend, is temporary. For those who don't know Christ, their suffering is just beginning. When we are willing to suffer for our faith, doesn't it speak to the truth and reality of Christ? Perhaps, our willingness to suffer will draw others to Him.

EverGrowing
Lonnie

Thursday, May 8, 2014

CHRIST AMONG OTHER gods

"You've heard of 'political correctness,' that doctrine based on a new American right--the right to never be offended. If your views run counter to the official liberal agenda, it is best to remain quiet or be accused of 'verbal violence.'"

Erwin W. Lutzer
Christ Among Other gods
Moody Publishers  1994
p. 30

I love that Lutzer and Moody use smaller case letters for "gods." Because, there is only one God. I'm likely to spend a few blogs in this subject and in this book. Ray and I attended a Changing Times conference, where Lutzer and others spoke. My prayer since has been, " Help us to be ready in season and out to give a reason for the hope that is in us."

This seems like a dangerous time to be a Christian, but it is no time to be silent. We have already lost freedoms in living and expressing our faith. The speed of continuing losses will only increase with our silence. Or -- another way to look at it is this: many don't yet know Christ, nor have they claimed the promise of eternal life. Let's tell them while we can.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Monday, April 21, 2014

A CONUNDRUM

"The church is to be in the world as a ship is in the ocean; but when the ocean seeps into the ship, the ship is in trouble."

Erwin W. Lutzer
Who Are You To Judge?
Moody Publishers  2002

Allow me to continue this quote:

"We have bought into the world's values; into its entertainment, its morals, its attitudes. We have also bought into its tolerance, it's insistence that we should never challenge the private beliefs of individuals, whether outside the church or within it. In the face of cultural pressures, we have found ourselves confused, hesitant to act, unable to give a loving but convincing witness to the world."
p. 14-15

I confess; I'm caught in this conundrum. While trying to share the Gospel, yet ever worried about how easily I can offend; I'm afraid I share rather ineffectively.

StillGrowing,
Lonnie

Saturday, April 19, 2014

LEADERS, ROCKS, AND RIVERS

" . . . the prophet is speaking primarily about leaders in the kingdom. They should be both rocks and rivers, providing security and sufficiency. Rocks do not move or change, while rivers are ever moving and changing. Leaders must be both consistent and adaptable, combining faithfulness of the rock with the fruitfulness of the river."

Warren W. Wiersbe
Chapter-By-Chapter Bible Commentary
Thomas Nelson Publishers  1991
p 470

I would love your thoughts.

Wiersbe's comments about Isaiah 32 provide a great picture of balance, strength, and security. I can "feel" the security. But what does it look like? Do you know a leader with the qualities Wiersbe speaks of? Or how would you expect those qualities to be played out in leadership? 

EverLearning,
Lonnie  

Thursday, April 17, 2014

WHO SAYS I HAVE TO GROW UP?

"C.S. Lewis once commented, 'that we who will still enjoy fairy tales have less reason to wish actual childhood back. We have kept its pleasures and added some grown-up ones as well."

Gladys Hunt
Honey For A Child's Heart
Zondervan  1989
p. 34

Enough said.

Enjoying Picture Books AND Adult Ones,
Lonnie

Monday, April 14, 2014

WISH I HAD MY CHILDREN BACK

"The fear of contamination has led people to believe that only what someone else has clearly labeled Christian is safe."

Gladys Hunt
Honey For A Child's Heart
Zondervan Publishing  1969, 1978, 1989
p. 17

How I wish I had my kids back! We would read more Suess and silly authors, for sure. We'd read books about Varooming trucks and courageous girls. We'd read books with incredible art; my goodness, they abound!

Where did I, a first-generation Christian, get the idea that everything (I mean everything!) had to be coloured, framed, and saturated with Jesus? Maybe because Jesus wasn't really a part of my life until my early twenties; and I so wanted my children to know Him sooner. Maybe because, as a young Christian, I and so many others were sure Jesus would return for His Bride any day! Maybe even before my children went to half-day kindergarten. 

I lived in a generation, or an environment, where satan was more interested in our children; and evidently more powerful than the God who created them. How ridiculous is that? Discernment is not overrated. Fear--a whole 'nother matter.

We had fun times with our children, but oh how I wish I had them back to read fun stories to.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

FROM REMNANTS TO MASTERPIECES

"The people who are in danger of missing life's great meaning are the people of ordinary capacity and opportunity, and who say to themselves, 'There is so little I can do that I will not try to do anything.

"One of the finest windows in Europe was made from the remnants an apprentice boy collected from the cuttings of his master's work."

A.B. Simpson (1843-1919)
Days of Heaven Upon Earth
p. 23/Nook

I could so easily fall into the trap of thinking my "one talent" isn't worth much. But in doing so, how much richness of life would I miss?

This young man made a masterpiece from remnants. I've seen stunning quilts made from scraps. And Jesus told the disciples to gather the leftovers after He'd fed the thousands. My friend, whatever you have--IT MATTERS! Use it for your joy and God's glory.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Saturday, April 5, 2014

THANKS-GIVING

"When we are willing to give thanks to God in all things, not just some things--to consciously thank Him even when we don't feel grateful--something in us begins to shift. We begin to see life as Christ sees it, full of opportunities rather than obstacles. (emphasis mine) And when we view life through eyes of faith, fear just has to flee."

Joanna Weaver
Having A Mary Heart In A Martha World
Waterbrook Press  2007
p. 41

Everything I read, for going on a second year, seems to at least "mention" thanks-giving. Like fads of coffee shops, health clubs, and massage salons, a Christian or church sometimes initiates a theme or discipline and everyone else jumps on.

I remember in my early Christian days Merlin Carothers encouraging us to Praise The Lord for "everything!" For a dropped pencil, a new job, a car wreck . . . and I did. "Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord!" The idea, as I recall, was more about God working all things together for good. But honestly, I "worked it" more like a superstition. If I do this--God will do that.

I don't think what I'm experiencing, now, is a fad. I believe God is planting a truth; in me, maybe in you--maybe in the Body of Christ. I'm seeing how connected thanks-giving and faith are. No, I'm not thanking Him "for" war, child prostitution, or even a difficult person. Thanks-giving is not so much the words I say as much as the attitude that's building in my heart.

It looks a lot like trust--like believing in God's unfathomable love even when . . .

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Thursday, April 3, 2014

PROBLEM? NOT OUR BEHAVIOR

"The problem is not in our behavior; the problem is in us. Jesus said, 'For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, stander' (Matthew 15:19) We don't need an upgrade. We need transformation. We need a miracle."
(emphasis, mine)

John Eldredge
Waking The Dead
Thomas Nelson Publishers  2003
p. 59

How like me, to try to change my behavior; and honestly that works--for a while. Behavior changes only last when God does a deep work in the heart.

I'm struggling with someone in my life these days; to make matters worse, this person is a Christian--albeit one that I can neither respect nor trust. I can't fake good behavior. I can't fake kindness. I can't even fake tolerance. I need a change of heart. "I" need a miracle. Fortunately for me, when I ask, God says, "I can." and "I will."  

This other person may need heart changes as well. But -- I'm only responsible for mine.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Monday, March 31, 2014

STUDIO AUDIENCES

"The deadpan expression of audiences is the despair of public speakers. A single appreciative face stands out and is a source of inspiration.

"In the early days of radio when performers worked in silent studios, many of them found it impossible to give good performances. Studio audiences were introduced--and stage managed--to supply the appreciation which is essential even to professional entertainers."

David Dunn
Try Giving Yourself Away
Prentice-Hall  1947
p. 62

Dunn reminds readers that a public speaker or pastor, pouring himself out to an audience, can become pretty discouraged without an appreciative comment. I wouldn't recommend "commenting" during a sermon, but I suspect signs of engagement would certainly encourage a pastor, performer, or speaker. A little head nod, appropriate chuckles, or even a smile might do wonders. And . . . I'm thinking a worship leader would love to see smiles, clapping, raised hands or even a little toe tapping.

Can I challenge you this week? Appreciation, sincerely spoken, is always an encouragement. This week, try it without words. 8-)

Smiling,
Lonnie

Thursday, March 27, 2014

IMPACT UNKNOWN

"How we travel in darkness and the work we do in all seriousness counts for naught, and the thing we toss off in play-time, unconsciously, God uses!"

David Grayson/Ray Stannard Baker
Adventures In Contentment
Grosset and Dunlap Publishers  1907
p. 61

The preacher thought himself a failure; but had the young boy in the front pew known the preacher thought so, he'd have convinced him otherwise.

Sometimes I wonder if God will ever use me. Other times, I'm convinced that He does; I just don't know how or when. And that's as it should be. For I wonder how long it would take before I'd take credit for what God has done. More than God not sharing His glory with another, I believe ministry wrapped in pride loses its effectiveness.

 God use what you will -- my work, my play; my smile, my tears; my voice, my silence; my blessings, my trials . . . I'll be me. You be You!

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Sunday, March 23, 2014

EIGHTY-ONE AND LONELY!

"While I was volunteering for an organization called, 'Friendly Visitors,' I went to an 81 year old lady's house to help her with housekeeping. She was very quiet, just sitting at the kitchen table while I worked and made small talk.
. . .
As I was getting ready to go I asked if she wanted me to blow out the candle. She kept looking at the candle burning, in broad daylight, and said, "No it keeps me company."

Dawn Nelson
From The Heart Through The Hands
Findhorn Press  2001
p. 12

That's lonely!

Is there someone in your life, church or neighborhood who needs to see another human being, hear a human voice, or feel a hand clasped over theirs? Next time you or I light a candle, I sort of hope this . . . haunts us.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie

Saturday, March 22, 2014

DEFINE NEGLIGIBLE!

"Darling, when you read and hear about the wonderful gains our army is making, keep in mind it just didn't happen--that many guys gave a lot of blood, even lives, to gain that objective. Don't forget that--even when the newspapers say "our losses are negligible."

Keith Winston (edited by wife, Sarah Winston)
V-Mail: Letters of a World War II Combat Medic
Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill  1985
p. 176

Oh my gosh! Even when I thought negligible meant "few" I couldn't count any death above zero as negligible. How do you tell a parent, "I'm sorry your son died in combat--but he was the only one in our company . . . ?"

Then I actually looked up the definition of negligible. "Worthy of neglect; trifling." --American Heritage Dictionary.

I'm several decades late for writing an editorial, but let me make myself clear. I disagree!

Lonnie

Friday, March 21, 2014

LETTERS FROM WAR

"This morning we saw scores of haggard Russians walking toward our rear--prisoners the Nazis had used as slaves and left behind when the Krauts retreated. Darling, when I saw their faces--their smiles of joy, their revived hope--and American food in their hands, it brought tears to my eyes for I knew I was seeing first-hand just what we're fighting for--the right to be free--to go unmolested, to have freedom from oppressive tyranny--something these poor souls hadn't known for years."  (emphasis mine)

Pfc. Keith Winston (edited with preface by Sarah Winston/wife)
V-Mail: Letters of a World War II Combat Medic
Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill   1985
p.195

Do we even begin to appreciate our freedom? Or the sacrifice of blood, limbs, family time, or even finances paid to obtain it? Do we appreciate those representatives who fight to maintain it?

EverGrateful,
Lonnie

What is V-mail?
"A V-letter was written on a single sheet of special stationary, which was on sale at post offices, and was photographed after mailing; the film was sent overseas by air, and the letter was then printed in reduced size on photographic paper and delivered . . . this did not always work out." p. 100

Thursday, March 20, 2014

ASK THE QUESTIONS

"God calls us to question, because only then can we learn for ourselves. It's the truest foundation of faith. How easy it is to have the foundation of our beliefs shaken with a simple question, if we haven't asked ourselves those questions already."

Michael Spaulding
March 18, 2013--Facebook


I have understood, forever, that my faith can't save my children. They can't hang on to me and slide into heaven on my shirt tails. Probably what I "haven't" understood is that my beliefs can't be the skeleton of their faith either. They have to ask the questions and find the answers themselves. That is HARD on parents' hearts. But, we have to let them question and trust God--who loves them with such a pure, unconditional and overwhelming love.

Mike makes comments on facebook that make me re-examine my beliefs instead of just accepting the most prevalent Christian opinion. He makes me ask questions; and they're good ones. We may, still, not end up on the same page; but I also may not end up on the page where I started.

When our son, Mat, was in highschool he tried to convince me that our nation and government weren't perfect. (Yes, please laugh with me.) I'd barely passed history and current events in school, but in my forties I began reading--mostly antique history books that concentrated more on "character (s)" than events. I still read an occasional book that debates political issues today. I do this because Mat "questioned." And he was right to do so. I still don't "get" a lot of the political jargon and the connection between this and that, but I've moved off my page.

We can't accept "just because." We have to question, dig, and form our own beliefs. As a parent, we still need to guide. I don't think we need to encourage testing of every faith and experience. But we need to allow freedom to Ask the Questions.

Mike, a young man and a soldier, once again gives me pause. I hope he does the same for you. Thank you Mike, for your challenging comments and for staying connected. So glad you will be home with your family soon.

Ever-Ever-Growing,
Lonnie

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

FIGHT DISEASE -- WITH GRATITUDE

"According to San Franciso researchers, acts of appreciation and caring actually can contribute to having a healthier heart. Doctors found that when we dwell on more altruistic actions, heart rates slow and levels of disease-fighting chemical ImmunoGlobulin A (igA) rise and stay that way for several hours."

Loretta LaRoche
Relax: You May Only Have A Few Minutes Left
Villard  1998
p. 65

A perscription with no co-pay.

EverGrowing,
Lonnie